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<title>REFLECTIONS ON ATTENDING THE 2012 NATIONAL MEETING  OF THE  AMERICAN  PSYCHOANALYTIC ASSOCIATION (APsaA)  by Raymond J. Lawrence</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> On the strong recommendation of Cesar Espineda, I registered for the 2012 National Meeting of APsaA, held January 10-15, at the Waldorf Astoria in New York City. I may have been the only cleric in the large international gathering...</summary>
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On the strong recommendation of Cesar Espineda, I registered for the 2012 National Meeting of APsaA, held January 10-15, at the Waldorf Astoria in New York City.</p>

<p>I may have been the only cleric in the large international gathering of psychoanalysts. Among the categories of registrants were psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, and “others.” I registered in the latter category. I was very well received, as Cesar promised I would be. One analyst working for a large treatment center told me that they often found themselves thwarted in their patient work until they could bring in the patient's cleric or religious authority to provide reassurance and support to the patient.</p>

<p>There is considerable overlap in the work of the psychoanalyst, or any psychotherapist, and the work of clergy and religious authorities. This is contingent on the level of training of the cleric or religious authority. And the more clinical training and experience a religious authority has, the more overlap there is. Most all religious authorities function as counselors at some level of expertise, but only the most experienced function with the discipline approaching that of a trained psychoanalyst.</p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>Freud said once that all he did was make connections - mostly connections of course with the unconscious. The psychoanalyst is the consummate maker of connections. Of course, like clergy they also teach. But unlike most clergy, they are highly disciplined in separating their teaching from their analytical work with patients.</p>

<p>What most struck me at the APsaA meeting was seeing that analysts are doing exactly what we are doing when we are at our best, but doing it without any identifiable religious allegiance. Where we as religious authorities straddle two worlds, religion and psychotherapy, they attend professionally only to one. But the wisdom and healing they seek and promote is congruent with the wisdom and healing we also work to promote.</p>

<p>I found it quite humbling as well as inspiring to sit in seminars where psychoanalysts of many decades of experience shared their patient work with groups of colleagues, friends and strangers, leaving themselves open to professional critique. The astonishing humility of an analyst of several decades experience laying his or her patient work before a group of peers, and to be reminded of the distorting effects countertransference in relation to their patients, was an eye-opener to me. I left the conference with highest respect for many of the analysts I saw in action. That sort of professional humility we see too little of in our own community. </p>

<p>The break-out groups at our own Plenary meetings should be given a clearer, more explicit injunction, that the small group assignment is not only to share clinical work, but in doing so specifically to prepare to engage one's own countertransferences. While that injunction has been implicit all along, I believe we should make it more explicit, especially after my experience at the APsaA meeting.</p>

<p>Countertransference is the viper in all counseling and psychotherapy. It is the perpetual lure toward imposing on the patient/parishioner/client one's own values and prejudices as opposed to providing a maieutic context in which the other might experience, grow and prosper. No one is exempt from this snare.</p>

<p>The great psychiatrist, Wilfred Bion, proposed that the therapist begin work with a patient "without memory or desire." These words are a monument to the highest respect a professional can give to a client. They signal the intention to impose nothing external on the client, but simply to relate to and explicate what one sees. Such a posture requires extraordinary courage from the therapist, the kind of courage that therapists are not always ready to muster. It also makes the therapeutic encounter an uncertain one, both in terms of direction and results. Which leads me to recall another Bion saying, that the therapeutic encounter consists of the meeting of two frightened animals, one hopefully less so than the other. </p>

<p>Many religious authorities have considerable resistance to playing a therapeutic role in the lives of persons under their purview. They are too busy teaching and passing on religious content - the catechism, the Torah, or whatever. Such teaching is of course part of the religious leader's mandate. (Indeed, psychoanalysts also teach psychoanalysis.) But the limitations of such a job description, and the relative emptiness of such a job description in relation to suffering people often never occurs to clergy.</p>

<p>We in CPSP are committed to authentic therapeutic work in addition to whatever teaching we engage in. The psychoanalytic community as exemplified in the APsaA offers itself as a significant ally as well as a valuable resource. </p>

<p>Donald Capps, emeritus professor of pastoral counseling at Princeton, in his seminal work in 2008, Jesus as Village Psychiatrist, makes the case for Jesus as a healer in the Freudian vein. Capps' work is obligatory for all religious professionals. In Capps reading, Jesus was a religious authority who functioned with the skills of a psychoanalyst, and brought about cures startlingly similar to Freud’s.</p>

<p>Anton Boisen, the founder of the clinical pastoral movement, in the midst of his psychiatric hospitalization in 1920, recognized the need for a psychoanalytically informed ear through which he might be able to sort out his tormented life. Ironically, the psychiatrists to whom he was assigned were contemptuous of Sigmund Freud and his theories. Boisen was thwarted in his own attempts to get transferred to a hospital where Freudian therapists were on staff. Boisen sought someone to listen to him as he attempted to probe his own tormented history and inner life. He seems never to have found such a therapist. What he accomplished, he accomplished on his own, through a kind of self-analysis, and it was seemingly a partial resolution only. That Boisen remained devoted all his life to the replica of his punitive mother, the withholding and sexually repressed Alice Batchelder, indicates the failure of his therapy, or his lack thereof. However, even in his damaged condition, Boisen knew what suffering people need, and he knew what therapists needed to do to assist them. "It's not what the counselor says to the boy," Boisen famously and inimitably said. "It's what the boy says to the counselor." It's not what the therapist says to the patient, but what the patient says to the therapist. It's not what the minister says to the parishioner, but what the parishioner says to the minister.</p>

<p>The psychoanalytic community is committed to "the talking cure." They are contemporary specialists in the meaning of talk, and the meaning that can be discovered through talk. We who are pastoral counselors and pastoral psychotherapists need the psychoanalytic community as allies and resource persons. They are very much our colleagues.</p>

<p>_______________<br />
Raymond J. Lawrence, D.Min.<br />
CPSP General Secretary<br />
<a href="mailto:lawrence@cpsp.org">lawrence@cpsp.org</a></p>]]>
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<title>From the Editor: What People Talk About Before They Die</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> I&apos;m confident that I have just read one of the most deeply human and profound descriptions of the work of the clinical chaplain that I have ever encountered. Kerry Egan is a hospice chaplain in Massachusetts and the author...</summary>
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<p>I'm confident that I have just read one of the most deeply human and profound descriptions of the work of the clinical chaplain that I have ever encountered. </p>

<p>Kerry Egan is a hospice chaplain in Massachusetts and the author of "<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fumbling-Pilgrimage-Spiritual-Renewal-Santiago/dp/0385507658/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1327897625&sr=8-1">Fumbling: A Pilgrimage Tale of Love, Grief, and Spiritual Renewal on the Camino de Santiago</a>."</p>

<p>She is featured in a CNN article published January 28, 2012 entitled <a href="http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2012/01/28/my-faith-what-people-talk-about-before-they-die/">My Faith: What People Talk about Before They Die.</a></p>

<p>She starts her article with an encounter with her seminary professor who quizzed her what she talked with dying people about in her clinical internship at a cancer Hospital:</p>

<p> <blockquote>"I talk to the patients," I told him.</p>

<p>"You talk to patients?  And tell me, what do people who are sick and dying talk to the student chaplain about?" he asked.</p>

<p>I had never considered the question before.  “Well,” I responded slowly, “Mostly we talk about their families.”</p>

<p>“Do you talk about God?</p>

<p>“Umm, not usually.”</p>

<p>“Or their religion?”</p>

<p>“Not so much.”</p>

<p>“The meaning of their lives?”</p>

<p>“Sometimes.”</p>

<p>“And prayer?  Do you lead them in prayer?  Or ritual?”</p>

<p>“Well,” I hesitated.  “Sometimes.  But not usually, not really.”</p>

<p>I felt derision creeping into the professor's voice.  “So you just visit people and talk about their families?”</p>

<p>“Well, they talk.  I mostly listen.”</p>

<p>“Huh.”  He leaned back in his chair.</blockquote></p>

<p>The next week in the professor's lecture he, without using her name, attempted to shame her clinical practice of ministry by saying: "...if I was ever sick in the hospital, if I was ever dying, that the last person I would ever want to see is some Harvard Divinity School student chaplain wanting to talk to me about my family.” </p>

<p>Obviously the professor believed that this was a time to talk about God, faith and life beyond, not family and loved ones. The young student said that she felt shame and regret now thinking that a more seasoned chaplain would have addressed the God and other theological issues with the dying. She had failed.</p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>Thirteen years later, however, she is now a hospice chaplain. Without hesitancy she declares that she would give the same answer to the professor if asked again. She knows as most of us know as clinical chaplains, pastoral psychotherapists and counselors, usually the dying talk about their families and loved ones, not god, religion, faith, theology unless coerced  by a chaplain or pastoral provider with their own agenda and counter-tranference issues.</p>

<p>Chaplain Egan gives a beautiful expression to what actually happens when the chaplain stays out of the way and soulfully listens:</p>

<blockquote>"Mostly, they talk about their families: about their mothers and fathers, their sons and daughters.

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They talk about the love they felt, and the love they gave.  Often they talk about love they did not receive, or the love they did not know how to offer, the love they withheld, or maybe never felt for the ones they should have loved unconditionally.</p>

<p>They talk about how they learned what love is, and what it is not.    And sometimes, when they are actively dying, fluid gurgling in their throats, they reach their hands out to things I cannot see and they call out to their parents:  Mama, Daddy, Mother."</p>

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<p>I encourage you to read the <a href="http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2012/01/28/my-faith-what-people-talk-about-before-they-die/">full article</a>. If you are a training supervisor, I hope you will pass it on to your trainees as well as your colleagues. </p>

<p><strong>Perry Miller, Editor </strong></p>

<p>____________________<br />
<strong>Perry Miller, D. Min</strong>.<br />
NC State Board Psychotherapist/Clinical Supervisor<br />
<a href="mailto:perrymiller@gmail.com">perrymiller@gmail.com</a><br />
(919) 442-8181<br />
<a href="http://www.pcci.org">PCCI.ORG</a><br />
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<title>CPSP PEOPLE IN THE NEWS: William Alberts, PhD</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> William Albert&apos;s, a CPSP Diplomate, prophetic voice was once again heard in his recently published article in Counter Punch on January 16, 2012 entitled From Worship to Wall Street. Alberts writes: &quot;When a controversial protest movement arises, Christians often...</summary>
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<p>William Albert's, a CPSP Diplomate, prophetic voice was once again heard in his recently published article in <a href="http://www.counterpunch.org">Counter Punch </a>on January 16, 2012 entitled <em><a href=""><a href="http://www.counterpunch.org/2012/01/16/from-worship-to-wall-street/">From Worship to Wall Street</a>.</a><br />
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Alberts writes: "When a controversial protest movement arises, Christians often ask themselves, “What would Jesus do?”  Thus today the repeated question, “Would Jesus join the Occupy Wall Street Movement?</p>

<p>Certain Christians say Jesus would not be involved in Occupy Wall Street protests against capitalistic America’s widening economic and political gulf between rich and poor persons."</p>

<p>Dr. Alberts precedes to challenge Tony Perkins, president of the influential conservative Christian Family Research Council opposition to the Occupy Wall Street movement. </p>

<p>On the strength of the article, Dr. Alberts was interviewed by <a href="http://www.presstv.ir/usdetail/221636.html">Press TV.</a></p>]]>

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<title>2012 CPSP PLENARY BROCHURE: REGISTRATION, HOTEL AND CONFERENCE INFORMATION</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> DOWNLOAD 2012 CPSP PLENARY BROCHURE Editor&apos;s Note:We regret that the links in the above CPSP Plenary Brochure are not active. We are working to rectify this ASAP. For now, download the document below, A Gathering Together, that contains the...</summary>
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<p><strong>Editor's Note:</strong>We regret that the links in the above CPSP Plenary Brochure are not active. We are working to rectify this ASAP. For now, download the document below, <em>A Gathering Together</em>,  that contains the active links.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.pastoralreport.com/A%20Gathering%20Together.doc%202012.doc">"DOWNLOAD "A GATHERING TOGETHER"</a><br />
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<![CDATA[<p><a href="mailto:"George Hull" <JHull@uams.edu>">George Hankins Hull </a>is the Coordinator for the 2012 CPSP Plenary</p>]]>
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<title>TO MEMBERS AND FRIENDS OF CPSP AND TO ALL MEMBERS OF THE CLINICAL PASTORAL COMMUNITY</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> January 2, 2012 TO MEMBERS AND FRIENDS OF CPSP AND TO ALL MEMBERS OF THE CLINICAL PASTORAL COMMUNITY The leadership of CPSP regrets to inform you that the mediation process between CPSP and ACPE has broken down. The Mediation...</summary>
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<p>January 2, 2012</p>

<p>TO MEMBERS AND FRIENDS OF CPSP<br />
AND TO ALL MEMBERS OF THE CLINICAL PASTORAL COMMUNITY</p>

<p>The leadership of CPSP regrets to inform you that the mediation process between CPSP and ACPE has broken down. The Mediation Agreement which was signed with high hopes in Philadelphia, November 30, 2010, by the leadership of both organizations, and which created a good spirit and considerable optimism in the larger clinical pastoral field, has been critically breached.</p>

<p>The rupture has come about as a result of a threat from ACPE against the Robert Wood Johnson Medical Center's chaplaincy program as it goes for re-accreditation in January.  The medical center’s clinical training program is directed by John deVelder has been accredited by ACPE for several decades. DeVelder is a certified CPE Supervisor with both ACPE and CPSP credentials. He is a prominent clinical pastoral supervisor, well-respected, past President of CPSP and former Chair of the COMISS Network. </p>

<p>The hospital was informed by ACPE that its accreditation would be in jeopardy if it failed to disassociate itself officially from CPSP. Since the hospital's administration did not want a fight on its hands between two accrediting organizations, it forced deVelder to resign from CPSP on December 16. </p>

<p>The 2010 Mediation Agreement was posited on the mutual agreement that ACPE would no longer enforce the hostile and derogatory language that had earlier been made official in the so-called ACPE "Article 43."  That article publicly describes CPSP programs as lacking in "consistent application of program standards…" and marked by "a lack of transparency" as well as unfair market practices. Such charges are without substance, and are clearly incongruent with the Mediation Agreement. Furthermore, such accusations are unbecoming of any clinical pastoral community's description of another, unless substantiated by persuasive evidence. </p>

<p>The 2010 Mediation Agreement states explicitly that ACPE and CPSP will refrain from mutual disparagement, or of judging the respective value of the other organization's programs.</p>

<p>ACPE has damaged the reputation of CPSP at Robert Wood Johnson Medical Center, and done so without a basis in fact. No self-respecting community can sit idle while its reputation is being tarnished in this way.</p>

<p>Therefore CPSP is requesting that the two organizations return to the negotiating table without delay in order to resolve in the best way possible the damage inflicted on CPSP at Robert Wood Johnson Medical Center. </p>

<p>The clinical training movement is a relatively small part of the wider culture. The work we are called to do is currently imperiled by many forces beyond our control. All the organizations in our field need to support one another as much as we are able. Ruthless competition amongst us is damaging to the entire movement. </p>

<p>As leaders in the field of religion and counseling we will bring shame on ourselves and the entire clinical pastoral movement if we are not able quickly to repair this breach and restore amicable relations between ACPE and CPSP. </p>

<p>We in CPSP are committed to the redemptive process in all human relationships and remain committed to the Mediation Agreement signed November, 30, 2010. We urge the ACPE to abide by that agreement as the only basis for a continuing collegial relationship between the two communities.</p>

<p>We are hopeful about the possibilities of repairing the damage done the clinical pastoral movement at Robert Wood Johnson Medical Center, and we urge the leadership of ACPE to join us at the negotiating table in an attempt to undo this damage.</p>

<p><strong>Raymond J. Lawrence<br />
General Secretary, CPSP</strong><br />
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<![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="mailto:lawrence@cpsp.org">Raymond J. Lawrence</a><br />
General Secretary, CPSP</strong</p>]]>
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<title>Change Your Words. Change Your World---by Perry Miller</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> Barbara McGuire, CPSP Registrar shared this video during the holiday season. It is a simple yet profound message: &quot;Change Your Words...Change Your World.&quot; What if we changed our words we use with our mates, lovers, friends, children, family, enemies,...</summary>
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Barbara McGuire, CPSP Registrar shared this video during the holiday season.</p>

<p>It is a simple yet profound message: "Change Your Words...Change Your World."</p>

<p>What if we changed our words we use with our mates, lovers, friends, children, family, enemies, employees, employers, trainees and the little people we see on the street and those who wait our tables and clean our floors?</p>

<p>What if the various clinical pastoral organizations such as the College of Pastoral Supervision and Psychotherapy, the Association for Clinical Pastoral Education and the Association for Professional Chaplains, etc changed the words we use in relationship with one another?</p>

<p>I think we know. We would change our world.</p>

<p>I hope in this new year of 2012 we might find the wisdom and the courage to change our words. Our world depends upon it.</p>

<p><strong>Perry Miller, Editor</strong></p>

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<![CDATA[<p><a href="mailto:perrymiller@gmail.com">Perry Miller, Editor</a><br />
NC State Board Psychotherapist/Clinical Supervisor<br />
perrymiller@gmail.com<br />
(919) 442-8181<br />
PCCI.ORG</p>]]>
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<title>When a Heart is Broken--- Perry Miller, Editor</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> I am always touched by the power of human bonding, even with a pet. Such bonding can be transformative. As the training supervisor for an Urban Ministry CPE training program, I have seen this more than once in the...</summary>
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<p>I am always touched by the power of human bonding, even with a pet. Such bonding can be transformative. As the training supervisor for an Urban Ministry CPE training program, I have seen this more than once in the pastoral ministry provided by CPE Interns and Residents. </p>

<p>The link below is a sad story that again makes the point that life and its meaning for those who have fallen on hard times can come down to the love and affection between a pet and its owner.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/30/humane-society-sparks-out_n_1175760.html?ref=email_share ">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/30/humane-society-sparks-out_n_1175760.html?ref=email_share </a></p>

<p>I have the hope that in in this new year 0f 2012, we in the clinical pastoral movement will ponder how we might work together to serve the "least of these" who are broken in spirit, life and relationships. Such would be a far more noble calling than the current atmosphre that is focused on competition, market shares and self-serving interest. </p>

<p>Happy New Year!</p>

<p><strong>Perry Miller, Editor</strong><br />
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<title>CPSP PEOPLE in the NEWS: Susan McDougal, George Buck and George Hankins Hull</title>
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<summary type="text/plain">JHull@uams.edu Being There: The Art of Clinical Pastoral Care is an article written by  By Jon Parham for the Fall 2011 edition of the UAMS Magazine. It features Susan McDougal, George Hankins-Hull and George Buck, clinical chaplains at the University of...</summary>
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<em><a href="http://issuu.com/uams/docs/uams_mag_fall_2011_final/21">Being There: The Art of Clinical Pastoral Care</a> </em>is an article written by  By Jon Parham for the Fall 2011 edition of the UAMS Magazine. It features Susan McDougal, George Hankins-Hull and George Buck, clinical chaplains at the University of Arkansas  Medical Center (UAMS).</p>

<p>UMAS is an accredited CPSP CPE training center with a large number of CPE Residents and Interns. There is a lot of pastoral care and counseling taking place in this medical institution. The article speaks of how clinical chaplains at UAMS are integrated into the total care of patients and families. George Buck, CPE Supervisor notes that chaplains  <em>...play a supportive role to help the patient call upon their own faith or philosophy of life as a source of comfort...<br />
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<p>The auhtor provides a graphic and touching snapshot of Susan McDougal, a CPSP Board Certified Clinical Chaplain at UAMS: </p>

<p><em>McDougal, a Quaker, is the newest full-time chaplain at the Medical Center, joining the team in June 2011 after completing the UAMS Clinical Pastoral Education program. Her interest in becoming a chaplain was kindled by 18 months spent in prison for refusing to answer grand jury questions related to the Whitewater investigation of then-President Bill Clinton.  “I was frightened in jail,” said McDougal. “These were women at the worst time in their lives, yet they embraced me and cared about me.  “It changed me and made me want to live up to that by offering a personal connection, comfort and caring to those who are in a time of trauma.”</em></p>

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            <em> From Left to Right: George Hankins Hull, Susan McDougal and George Buck</em></p>

<p>George Hankins Hull, director of the department and the CPE clinical training program, speaks of the unique role of chaplain as the "interpreter of "metaphors and connections":</p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p><em>Pastoral care at UAMS is primarily about relationships and the stories people tell about illness. “The least known role of the clinical chaplain is as interpreter of the metaphors and the connections people make while telling their stories that allows them to navigate their hospitalization.<br />
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<p>Please read the full article that is in a very readable magazine format by clicking<a href="http://issuu.com/uams/docs/uams_mag_fall_2011_final/21"> here. </a></p>

<p><strong>Perry Miller, Editor</strong><br />
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For more information about UAMS's program contact: <br />
George Hankins Hull, Director<br />
Director of Pastoral Care and Clinical Pastoral Education<br />
University of Arkansas  Medical Center<br />
<a href="mailto:JHull@uams.edu">JHull@uams.edu</a></p>

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<title>It’s  About Kindness---By Rev. William E. Alberts, Ph.D.</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> (Presented at Boston Medical Center’s Spiritual Care Department’s annual Spiritual Care Week Award Celebration, November 30, 2011.) I’m honored and delighted to be the speaker at your annual Spiritual Care Award Celebration here at Boston Medical Center, with Lorien...</summary>
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<p><em>(Presented at Boston Medical Center’s Spiritual Care Department’s annual Spiritual Care Week  Award Celebration, November 30, 2011.)</em></p>

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I’m honored and delighted to be the speaker at your annual Spiritual Care Award Celebration here at Boston Medical Center, with Lorien Manns selected to receive this year’s Award.</p>

<p>On July 15, as you know, I retired as hospital chaplain on the Newton Pavilion, after 18 and ½ years.  And I’m very pleased that Sam Lowe was hired to replace me.<br />
I’m most fortunate to have been a hospital chaplain at Boston Medical Center.  In a ministry spanning over 62 years, that has included certain challenging involvements, Boston Medical Center has been an ideal place for me to work and thrive.  You made it so.  Thank you.</p>

<p>The annual Spiritual Care Award offers the opportunity to recognize the invaluable contribution the Spiritual Care Department makes to Boston Medical Center, and also to recognize a staff person who has especially enabled the hospital’s chaplains in their work.  This year the Spiritual Care Department has selected Lorien Manns as the recipient of the Award.  </p>

<p>Lorien is a guest services staff person at the information desk at the Menino Pavilion’s Emergency Room entrance.  She embodies Boston Medical Center’s mission of ‘EXCEPTIONAL CARE.  WITHOUT EXCEPTION.’  That is the way I saw her interact with people at the critical Emergency Room intersection on Albany Street.  And that is the way she had interacted with me as well.</p>

<p>I asked Menino Pavilion hospital chaplain Jennie Gould to tell me a little about why the Pastoral Care Department selected Lorien for this year’s Award.  Jennie responded, “She is a very warm and caring person.”</p>

<p>I thought, my goodness.  That’s right out of the Bible.  I Corinthians 13 states, “If I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but” am not “warm and caring,” “I am nothing.”  I know I omitted the words “but have not love.”  But what is “love?”  Lorien puts flesh and blood on “love” by being “warm and caring.”</p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>And that’s what I want to talk about today.  Being “warm and caring” is about kindness.  Boston Medical Center’s mission of  ‘EXCEPTIONAL CARE.  WITHOUT EXCEPTION’ is about kindness.  Whether one is an Emergency Room staff services information person, or a doctor, or nurse, or  chaplain, or housekeeping person, or security person, or an administrator, kindness is the indispensable human element that makes hospital care exceptional.  It’s about kindness.  Here’s an example.</p>

<p>One day, during my chaplaincy work here, as I entered 8E on the Newton Pavilion, a 59-year-old black Catholic patient was sitting just outside her room crying.  She looked at me from a distance, and, in her desperation, repeated what she asked everyone she could lay her eyes on: “Would you walk me down the hall?”  I told her that I could not do that, then went over to her and said that she should request that of her nurse.  Apparently assuming that I was a chaplain, she said that she would like to receive communion.  I told her that I would share her request with any Eucharistic Minister I might see.  “And I hope you will be feeling better,” I said.  “Thank you,” she replied.</p>

<p>When I returned to the unit’s center after visiting another patient, I observed a black staff person in her fifties stopping and talking with the patient, who was now crying.  I was struck by the staff person’s kindness toward the patient.  “Look here, girl,” she said in a sisterly way, “I want you to stop crying.  I’m going to come back and comb your hair.  Okay?  I’ll check what is down the hall, and come back, and we can talk.  No more gray eyes.  Bright eyes and a smile,” she added, with a smile of her own, seeking to bolster the patient’s spirit.  “Alright,” the patient said appreciatively, and stopped crying.</p>

<p>Shortly, a longtime, caring, white, Catholic Eucharistic Minister, who had been a nurse all her adult life, entered the unit.  I told her that the patient was upset, and had requested communion.  The Eucharistic Minister walked over to the patient, introduced herself, and asked, “Would you like to receive communion?”  “Yes,” the patient replied.  The Eucharistic Minister served her communion, and said, “I hope you will be feeling better.”</p>

<p>No sooner had the patient received communion than the staff person returned from down the hall with breakfast on a plate for the patient.  The staff person then proceeded to bend over and cut the patient’s food for her.  From spiritual food for the soul to physical food for the body—both of which evidently warmed the patient’s heart.</p>

<p>The staff person’s kindness led me to introduce myself to her later, and say, “I really appreciate what you are doing for that patient.”  “Well, thank you!  Thank you!,” she replied, with a big smile.  “Anytime!”<br />
Palestinian-American poet Naomi Shihab Nye had people like this vulnerable patient—and her care givers, and all of us—in mind in her poem on “Kindness”:</p>

<p>          Before you know what kindness really is<br />
          you must lose things,<br />
          feel the future dissolve in a moment<br />
          like salt in a weakened broth.<br />
          <br />
          What you held in your hand,<br />
          what you counted and carefully saved,<br />
          all this must go so you know<br />
          how desolate the landscape can be<br />
          between the regions of kindness.<br />
          How you ride and ride<br />
          thinking the bus will never stop,<br />
          the passengers eating maize and chicken<br />
          will stare out the window forever.<br />
         <br />
         Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,<br />
         you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho<br />
         lies dead by the side of the road.<br />
         You must see how this could be you,<br />
         how he too was someone<br />
         who journeyed through the night with plans<br />
         and the simple breath that kept him alive.<br />
         Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,<br />
         you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.<br />
         You must wake up with sorrow.<br />
         You must speak to it till your voice<br />
         catches the thread of all sorrows<br />
         and you see the size of the cloth.</p>

<p>         Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,<br />
         only kindness that ties your shoes<br />
         and sends you out into the day to mail letters and<br />
         purchase bread,<br />
         only kindness that raises its head<br />
         from the crowd of the world to say<br />
         it is I you have been looking for,<br />
         and then goes with you everywhere<br />
         like a shadow or a friend.<br />
         <a href="http://(http://roiword.wordpress.com/2007/12/01/poem-of-the-day-kindness)">(http://roiword.wordpress.com/2007/12/01/poem-of-the-day-kindness)</a><br />
I was privileged to observe these acts of kindness by a staff person and a Eucharistic Minister.  Kindness that may go unnoticed but may be seen anywhere “anytime!”  Pastoral and spiritual care are about embodying and facilitating and revering kindness.</p>

<p>“Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.”</p>

<p>During my chaplaincy here, a son, who is a minister, had just lost his mother, who died suddenly.  He said to me, “I have never lost anyone close to me.  How will I feel tomorrow?  Can you tell me?”  “You will still love your mother tomorrow,” I said.  “Yes,” he replied.  “And tomorrow you will still feel the pain of your grief,” I continued.  “In time, the grief will still be there, but the ache will lessen.”  “Have you ever lost anyone?,” he asked.  “Yes,” I replied.  “My father and mother, and four brothers and a sister.”</p>

<p>“Will I be able to continue my ministry?,” he asked. “Yes,’ I said, “And your grief will help you understand others even more.  And you will have an even deeper love, and for more people.  For all people lose loved ones and grieve.   It is part of who all of us are as human beings.”  He nodded with an understanding smile. </p>

<p>I stayed a long time with this son and his family, which included being with him during his extended telephone conversations with his grandfather and then with his father—both in their native country in South America.  Love of a father and grandfather that affirms and remembers and comforts and strengthens.  Pastoral and spiritual care are about giving grief a hearing so that it does not become bottled up and beside itself.<br />
 As Naomi Shihab Nye writes, “kindness” is what the whole world has “been looking for.”  Here’s another example about kindness, taken from my work as chaplain here.</p>

<p>  I visited a 60-year-old white patient, the owner of a cranberry bog, who was sitting behind a metal table, with a pencil laying on a paper that had writing on it.  He began to tell his story: “I had this burning sensation in my chest, and thought it was from the medication I was taking for acid indigestion,” he said.  “But it persisted and got worse.  I finally went to my doctor,” he continued.  “He told me how foolish I was, that I needed open heart surgery right away, and referred me to the hospital for surgery.  Suddenly I went from indigestion to open heart surgery.  And I’m wondering, ‘How did that happen?’”</p>

<p>The patient then said, “Little things mean a lot.”  He explained: “I’m here, and I’m scared.  I didn’t know what to expect.  They wheel me down to the operating room.  And the doctors there are warmly greeting me, calling me by my name, asking how I’m doing, and joking with me—as if I have nothing to worry about.  They made me feel a lot better.”  He went on, “And I’m doing well.  So, I’ve been thinking about writing a letter thanking them,” and with that he held up the paper laying on the metal table.  I responded that such a letter would probably be very much appreciated by the doctors and the hospital.</p>

<p>There Is more to his story.  He said, “The doctors would come into my room and sit down and talk with me.  They took the time to explain everything to me, and asked if I had questions, and answered them.”  His next words put flesh and blood on Boston Medical Center’s mission statement ‘EXCEPTIONAL CARE.  WITHOUT EXCEPTION’: “For them, it was not routine.” (Italics added)  Being “warm and caring” is about discovering the little things that mean a lot to patients and their loved ones.</p>

<p>Being “warm and caring” is about kindness.  One more example from my experience here.  It is difficult to be kind to a person whose behavior reminds you of abrupt, angry-looking and -behaving persons in your past.  A particular white female staff person presented that kind of a challenge for me.  Her abrupt and angry demeanor and responses were a turn-off for me. <br />
 <br />
In time, I made it a point to transcend my own negative perception of her.  A key element in moving beyond my own guardedness towards her was remembering and saying her name—and taking time to talk with and listen to her.  There was the sharing of experiences and a story or two.  She then began to share her conflicted religious beliefs, talking  and asking questions about her issues with religion.  I began to enjoy seeing her and to make it a point to talk with her.  I grew to like her.  </p>

<p>One day, she told me that she stopped going to church because she did not agree with certain beliefs held by her denomination, which evidently led her to ask me, “Can you tell by looking at people whether they are good or bad?”  I replied, “I can tell by looking at people that they are human beings.”  She looked at me for a few seconds, and then a smile crossed her face.</p>

<p>There is far more to people than what meets our first impression-- or second impression.  The challenge is to go beyond what meets our eyes and experience what is actually in their eyes. </p>

<p>It’s about kindness.  ‘EXCEPTIONAL CARE.  WITHOUT EXCEPTION’ is actually about The Golden Rule.  Christianity teaches, “In everything, do to others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law and the prophets.” (Jesus, Matthew 7: 12)  Judaism teaches, “What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor.  This is the whole Torah; all the rest is commentary.” (Hillel Talmud, Shabbat 31a) Islam teaches, “Not one of you truly believes until you wish for others what you wish for yourself.” (Imam Nawawis Fourty Hadith, n13)<br />
‘EXCEPTIONAL CARE.  WITHOUT EXCEPTION.’  It’s about kindness.  It’s about being “warm and  caring,” like Lorien Manns. <br />
______________________________<br />
Bill Alberts was a hospital chaplain at Boston Medical Center from December 7, 1992 to July 15, 2011, when he retired.  Dr. Alberts is a nationally known writer and an occasional contributor to Counterpunch.   A diplomate and member of the recently named Dover, New Hampshire Chapter of CPSP (formerly the New England Chapter), his e-mail address is <a href="mailto:wm.alberts@gmail.com.">wm.alberts@gmail.com.</a></p>]]>
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<title>CHAPLAINCY AND THE WALL STREET JOURNAL---by Raymond J. Lawrence</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> The Wall Street Journal on December 6, ran an article “Bigger Roles for Chaplains on Patient Medical Teams, by Laura Landro. On the face of it the article strongly touted chaplaincy services in hospitals, and the reaction from a...</summary>
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The Wall Street Journal on December 6, ran an article <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970204826704577074462494881428.html?mod=googlenews_wsj">“Bigger Roles for Chaplains on Patient Medical Teams</a>, by Laura Landro. On the face of it the article strongly touted chaplaincy services in hospitals, and the reaction from a number of chaplains was quite positive. But they neglected to read the fine print, so to speak. No competent chaplain or pastoral clinician should be deceived by the hype in the Wall Street Journal piece. While it purports to promote pastoral services in hospitals, it actually discounts the genius of properly trained chaplaincies and pastoral services, however subtly the discounting was done. The article is in fact a damaging assault on clinically basis of pastoral care and counseling.</p>

<p>The blessing of cells and ‘positive spiritual guidance’, whatever that means, no doubt brings comfort to some people, but most competent well-trained chaplains will cringe at hearing their roles thus epitomised. Friendly companionship and familiar religious rituals, such as the blessing of this or that, undoubtedly bring comfort to some people. But such services hardly require years of rigorous clinical training that many health care chaplains have these days.</p>

<p>An unbiased and uninvolved reader of this Wall Street Journal article would certainly conclude that all those clinically trained chaplains who invested two, three, and more years developing their clinically skills in internships and residencies wasted a lot of time and money. They could have better spent a few weeks learning to say prayers and the art of friendly conversation.</p>

<p>Most competent clinically trained chaplains do not consider prayer a major therapeutic tool. Many, perhaps most pastoral visits by chaplains do not and arguably should not include prayer at all. The point here is that clinically trained chaplains offer a therapeutic ear for persons in trouble, an ear that is somewhat removed from the scientifically-oriented medical team, an ear that is trained both theologically and psychologically.</p>

<p>Anton T. Boisen, the man who in the early twentieth century inaugurated clinical pastoral training for clergy was not  the proverbial prayer warrior. He did not promote prayer with patients as the central tool. What he did promote and emphasize passionately was that chaplains should be trained to listen to patients with a sensitive and psychologically informed ear. “It’s not what the chaplain says to the patient, but what the patient says to the chaplain.” And the corollary is of course, that competent listening requires a considerable amount of intensive psychologically based training. Boisen also taught that ministers must have a basic knowledge of psychoanalytically psychology, without which no competent listening can take place.</p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>The Wall Street Journal has turned Boisen’s teaching and the clinical pastoral training movement on its head. In emphasizing chaplains’ prayers it is now claiming that what is important is what the chaplain says to the patient. Furthermore it is also highlighting the trivial or tangential dimension of clinical chaplaincy in its inflation of the benefits of prayer. And finally, the category ‘spiritual’ itself is a category yet bereft of definition. It seems to mean everything and nothing. </p>

<p>The kind of chaplaincy work touted by the Wall Street Journal can be done by persons with no clinical training. Such work would require only the ability to mouth prayers, remain friendly, and profess to know something about the blurry concept of spirituality, a concept about which everyone seems to be his or her own private expert. </p>

<p>Health care institutions across the country could save a considerable amount of money if they follow the Wall Street Journal. They could terminate their highly trained and well-paid chaplains and hire untrained prayer warriors to do friendly visits and by request pronounce their blessings on this or that. No well trained chaplain or pastoral counselor could be happy with such a prospect.<br />
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<strong>-<a href="mailto:lawrence@cpsp.org">Raymond J. Lawrence</a>, CPSP General Secretary</strong></p>]]>
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<title>What in the World’s Going On?  By Daryl L. Meyers, D.Min.</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> Though years have gone by, and the old-time circus has faded away, who can forget the hall of mirrors we kids of yesteryear enjoyed. Eerie images, spooky and weird, with little bodies and big heads or big bodies with...</summary>
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<p>Though years have gone by, and the old-time circus has faded away, who can forget the hall of mirrors we kids of yesteryear enjoyed. Eerie images, spooky and weird, with little bodies and big heads or big bodies with little heads stared back at us … and we loved every minute of it.</p>

<p>Like a hall of mirrors, ours is a world of illusions, where truth is often discounted or ignored, replaced by images, reflections of the real. All of us are affected by this Alice in Wonderland syndrome whether we realize it or not.  Through entertainment and advertising, multimedia experts allure millions into accepting the superficial as norm and appearances as real. </p>

<p>Across the centuries, great minds from almost every tradition have affirmed the truth of the oneness of the human family, yet we still imagine ourselves to be separate from one another and have demonstrated this illusion by creating a world more fragmented than ever. We are no closer to healthy relationships now than when warriors from the past showed their military might by throwing stones at each other.  All that’s changed is the size of our stones. We still can’t get along. Separatism has become our mantra and unity a mirage.  </p>

<p>What is it about our lifestyles that cause us to ignore the obvious and accept the imaginary?  Who cast the spell that has imprisoned us in a land of make-believe?  What in the world’s going on? </p>

<p>Perhaps it’s time we took a closer look at the truth behind our illusions,  re-examined the distorted images we’ve put in place, the processes and thinking that deepen the rifts between us, that give mixed messages and continue to move us and our children in directions that are unacceptable and jeopardize our future. </p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>t’s obvious we’ve made progress in science and technology, but our advance as a human race is questionable.  Ways of thinking that put in place inconsistent and convoluted systems within our lives and communities; that limit expression and opportunity, giving advantage to some while withholding it from others, is not a sign of progress. </p>

<p>To hold on to systems of belief - social, political or religious - that promote an “ours is the only way” mind-set, disregarding or disrespecting the traditions and cultural values of others, that deepen a sense of isolation and separation, is not progressive.  </p>

<p>To stand behind facades, under a guise of confidentiality as individuals, organizations or as a nation, intentionally withholding, or giving incomplete or inaccurate information to those dependent upon it in making important decisions, is not a sign of progress. </p>

<p>To seek profit through questionable policies or business practices that take advantage of those with limited resources, jeopardizing their ability to meet daily commitments and undermining their future security is not progressive (nor “profitable”).</p>

<p>To be sensitive, even indignant at the inhumane treatment of some animals, while ignoring billions of others, simply because they are food on our tables, is not a sign of progress. </p>

<p>To undermine the delicate balance of nature, exploiting earth’s limited resources, bringing comfort and opportunity to some while the majority have little or nothing, is not progressive. </p>

<p>To enrich entertainers or sports heroes at the expense of those who seek to strengthen the values society is based upon is not a sign of progress. </p>

<p>Few would challenge our standing among nations as a superpower. We are the richest, most powerful nation on earth, yet the poor and homeless continue to suffer, and we seem incapable, or unwilling to do anything about it.  As a nation our contributions to the less fortunate nationally and worldwide are significant. Compared to our resources, however, we give little of what we could to relieve the desperation and poverty around us. Caught in the “bigger, better, more” syndrome, greed has superseded generosity, and getting and saving has become the measure of success rather than giving and sharing.</p>

<p>We spend millions – make that billions - on diets, health food fads, and on research to “find a cure,” and have a health care system second to none, yet our health issues are among the most critical on the planet and we die of diseases almost unheard of in less affluent parts of the world.  </p>

<p>We have strict standards set by regulatory organizations that prohibit the use of unapproved drugs.  If, however, the drugs are popular, and financially viable, such as alcohol and tobacco, their use, with some restrictions, is generally accepted and often encouraged in spite of the thousands of lives lost each year, children neglected and abused, or families destroyed. </p>

<p>We are a nation that prides itself on records and have recently moved into first place ahead of China and Russia with a new record. We now have the most citizens imprisoned of any country in the world. Given the apparent ineffectiveness of our rehabilitation programs, we are continuing our emphasis on control, and containment by expanding our judicial services and constructing more detention centers.</p>

<p>We are extremely concerned about our children and their future, yet we allow them to sit in front of computers, TV screens, watch movies and provide other forms of entertainment that expose them to influences and behaviors opposite our values, then wring our hands and shake our heads in disbelief when violence erupts in our schools and communities and the more vulnerable act out what they have learned.</p>

<p>We are concerned about global warming and yet, according to reliable sources, there are technologies available today, and have been for decades, that could completely transform our dependence on fossil fuels. Were it not for special interest groups and their economic agendas, and the conflicts that result from both, these advanced technologies could have been on the market years ago, providing us and our world with energy systems more efficient and less contaminating then anything we are presently using. </p>

<p>We are strong in our support of human rights and hold other nations accountable when those rights are abused. If asked, however, to help end the misery of someone whose condition has become unbearable through disease and suffering, we are told it’s against the law. It’s called a “criminal offense.”  If, on the other hand, it meets our political or economic agendas, (or policies of “non-interference in internal affairs”), the taking or allowing of thousands of lives to be taken against their will through judicial or military action, even if it means some unfortunate “collateral damage,” is not only permitted, but encouraged. We call it “protecting our freedoms.” <br />
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We use force to control force, violence to fight violence, and terror against terrorists and seem surprised that our methods fuel discontent and madness instead of the peace and calm we seek.  In the midst of the chaos and noise of battle, we honor our fallen heroes, while the “enemy” honors theirs. Dreams of a better world have fallen prey to our inconsistencies and illusions.  </p>

<p>Our religious traditions hold places of honor in our hearts and in our society and so they should.  When “truth” however, becomes disconnected, an end in itself and takes on an aura of superiority, disregarding the rights and liberties of others, some of the most hideous crimes against humanity, as history has proven, have been instigated and carried out by religious organizations.  Even today much of the strife we see in war torn countries of the world is religiously motivated. </p>

<p>Concerns for our children, our children’s children and future generations are more apparent and more urgent now than ever before, however, these concerns are being undermined by patterns of behavior that continue to move us in directions that compromise their future.  Many of our financial institutions are collapsing with our economy at home and abroad weaker than it’s been in decades.  Standards of education that have for years made us leaders internationally are declining.  Our health care system is becoming more difficult to maintain financially with millions unable to afford even the basics of health care coverage.  The inequities between the “haves” and “have not’s” is becoming greater.  Third world countries are doing more with less while more advanced countries are doing less with more. The affects of global warming is no longer the territory of misguided minds, but a reality.  Terrorism, internal, external and imagined is taking away our freedoms.  Intolerance of others views and ways of life, cultures and traditions is no longer the exception but the norm.  The mechanisms of war are becoming more sophisticated and international conflicts more common.  </p>

<p>The unrest and strife around us are not the results of some preordained or predetermined outcome, but of the illusion we have embraced and lived out … the imagined idea that we are separate from one another, separate from our environment and from the very source of life itself.  Over the centuries and millennia this illusion of separation has become so dominant in human thinking that thoughts to the contrary appear abnormal.  </p>

<p>To think we can have the advantage of an abundant life and optimum health, while others know nothing but illness and premature death, is an illusion. To suggest we can succeed while others have little choice beyond failure, is an illusion. To assume we can be safe and secure in our nation or community while others are constantly at risk is an illusion.  To believe ourselves to be free when others are abused and enslaved is an illusion.  To seek peace in our corner of the world, when the world at large is in turmoil and conflict is an illusion.  To think we are separate from anything or anyone and can act irresponsibly or disregard the needs of others outside our cultural circles without it impacting our lives is an illusion.    </p>

<p>Lost in a world of shadows and make-believe, we seem oblivious to the signs that point us towards peace and keep throwing over barrier after barrier meant to protect us.  Slowly … systematically we are destroying the very support system that makes life on earth inhabitable.  As if mesmerized by some sinister force, we continue dream-like on a journey to nowhere, moving ever closer to the edge of existence. </p>

<p>Visionaries from ancient times and indigenous peoples from traditions and cultures all over the world, many of whom are outside traditional circles, warn of coming events brought about by an obsession with the material, greed and disrespect for human life, and a disregard for our environment, that could be cataclysmic in nature, of a magnitude beyond our ability to anticipate much less prepare for. Soon, so they say, mother earth will discipline her unruly children.</p>

<p>Our civilization has now reached a crossroads.  Wonderful possibilities and opportunities lie ahead for us and our children if we make the right choices, but if we continue moving in the direction we are now, life as it is on planet earth will be unsustainable.  </p>

<p>Dreams of a better world are not enough.  Now is the time to re-examine the traditions, political ideologies, religious persuasions and racial prejudices that separate us.  Now is the time to replace our cultural and traditional differences with an appreciation for the richness of diversity, removing all barriers that separate, tearing down all walls that restrain and isolate. Now is the time to put our energies and resources into creating peace in place of war, of uplifting instead of tearing down, sharing instead of hoarding, contributing to life rather than exploiting it, cooperating rather than competing, giving advantage rather than taking it, serving rather than subduing or suppressing.  Now is the time to experience and express higher levels of consciousness, a deeper understanding of life, and a renewed sense of the interconnectedness of all living things. Now is the time to give expression to the overwhelming desire of the human heart to know and experience unity, peace and oneness with all others. </p>

<p>Now is the time to create the grandest version of the greatest vision we’ve ever had. Now is the time to move beyond the boundaries that separate us, into a new experience … a new age … … a new world; a world of compassion and peace; a world that respects the rights of all peoples and gives equal opportunities to all   <strong>… “One World … under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”<br />
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<p>_______<br />
Daryl Meyers, Chaplain and Community Relations Director at Platte Valley Medical Center in Brighton, Colorado. He has served in this position for twenty-eight years and he also presently the senior Councilman (ten years) for the City of Brighton.<br />
He can be contacted via <a href="mailto:dmeyers@pvmc.org"><strong>Email</strong>.</a><br />
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<title>A TIME FOR THANKSGIVING: A Letter to the Community by Raymond J. Lawrence, CPSP General Secretary</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> At this Thanksgiving season we in CPSP have much to be thankful for. We are prospering as a community both in this country and overseas. We have come into our own as a significant community among the many communities...</summary>
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At this Thanksgiving season we in CPSP have much to be thankful for. We are prospering as a community both in this country and overseas. We have come into our own as a significant community among the many communities that promote clinical pastoral work.</p>

<p>We are also approaching November 30, the first anniversary of the <a href="http://www.acpe.edu/NewPDF/The%20ACPE%20CPSP%20Joint%20Statement%20November%2030%202010.pdf">Mediation Agreement</a> signed by the ACPE and CPSP, signed appropriately enough in Philadelphia. This agreement put an end to two decades of animosity that was subverting the high goals of both communities.</p>

<p>We are grateful especially to leaders of the <a href="http://www.pastoralreport.com/the_archives/2010/04/an_open_letter_1.html">Religious Endorsing Bodies </a>without whom this agreement might ever have come to fruition. We are grateful, and we look forward to a deepening sense of collegiality between the two communities.</p>

<p>The members of the CPSP Mediation Team who, with our ACPE colleagues brought this agreement to pass, are Jim Gebhart, Perry Miller, George Hankins-Hull, and me.</p>

<p>In February a subcommittee was appointed to undertake the detailed discussions with our ACPE colleagues as they implemented the Agreement. This sub-committee has had one face to face meeting and numerous phone meetings. Jim Gebhart chairs this committee, which includes Annari Griesel and John deVelder. They have addressed and are continuing to address several complaints that have been presented from our side to ACPE of possible violations of the Mediation Agreement.</p>

<p>We have every hope that this dialogue group will continue its work in the positive and cooperative spirit in which it began.</p>

<p>We believe we are entering a new era in which the ACPE and CPSP will be more fully colleagues in our common work. And for that anticipation we can all be very thankful.</p>

<p>Given our progress together we are thankful that we seem to have entered a new era of mutual collegiality as becomes our common calling.</p>

<p>I wish you all a blessed Thanksgiving.</p>

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<strong>-Raymond J. Lawrence, CPSP General Secretary</strong></p>

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<title>FALL NATIONAL CLINICAL TRAINING SEMINAR EAST...AWESOME!!</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> Taking a Break and Enjoying the Sun and Sea at NCTS-East Left to Right: Barbara McGuire, David Baker, Francine Angel Hernandez and John DeVelder The Fall NCTS EAST was awesome! This was the largest yet! We had 68 attendees....</summary>
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<p>            Taking a Break and Enjoying the Sun and Sea at NCTS-East</p>

<p><em>Left to Right: Barbara McGuire, David Baker, Francine Angel Hernandez and John DeVelder</em></p>

<p>The Fall NCTS EAST was awesome!  This was the largest yet!  We had 68 attendees.  The Stella Maris Retreat only holds 45, but many of the attendees stayed at hotels and some were commuters.  The power of the small group still is the crux of NCTS.  We had ten small groups, four of which were Supervisors in training.  The other six were made up of staff chaplains, chaplain interns, chaplain residents and certified chaplains.  During the presenters’ report session, there was evidenced of critical reflections and critical feedback taking place in small groups.  The energy of the attendees was refreshing!  Stella Maris Retreat, located on the ocean gave a fresh breeze and new life to this seminar.  Just hearing the attendees share in this experience was a true reflection of recovery of souls.</p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>Our presenter, Dr. Roy Gaton, helped us to revisit how we take care of ourselves as caregivers.  We were admonished to be cognizant of the need to preserve health (physical, emotional, mental, etc.) He gave a crucial example of self-care, “If you are in an airplane they teach you to first inhale the oxygen from the mask so you can help someone else. You put the mask on yourself first and then you can assist your children or others.  For if you don’t take care of self first, you could very well loose consciousness.”  To avoid losing ‘consciousness’ there need to be a major shift in how we take care of our selves thus avoiding Compassion Fatigue. We as caregivers need to discover ways to reframe our care giving. We need to stop neglecting the care of self.  And we are being self-centered when we focus on our needs.  In fact, if we fail to focus on caring for our selves we have really missed a command of God, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”  We cannot take self out of the equation.</p>

<p>Don't be deceived - this is not being self-centered - this is learning to love self and your value. Self Care is both Natural and Spiritual and begins with YOU!</p>

<p>Dr. Gaton encouraged us to live outside our tendency.  Stop living from the head out.  Our tendency is to focus solely on others at the expense of our own health. Health is inner peace.  He encouraged us to blossom in the presence. </p>

<p>Dr. Gaton admonished that anxiety leads us to negative thinking.  Live fully in the present and be in touch with all of who we are. We need to avoid the tendency to go back with regrets or to look toward the future with fear.  STAY in the presence.  We can choose to be peaceful inside regardless of what is going on outside.  When we are facing any situation: Learn how to RELAX.</p>

<p>The Tavistock as always engendered a lot of energy around issues of gender and boundaries. It allowed space for persons to wrestle with inner personal issues that may have in fact been some of the unspoken group issues. There seemed anxiety in those who continuously shared who may in fact have been the container for much of the energy housed in the silent members. </p>

<p>All in all this was a very dynamic overnight seminar. We look forward to others to follow.</p>

<p><strong><a href="mailto:fangel@ehs.org">Francine Angel Hernandez</a><br />
NCTS Director</strong></p>]]>
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<title>CPSP AND ASIA</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> Lawrence with Young Gweon You, Director of Yonsei University Counseling Center in Seoul, and Chair of the &quot;Asian CPE Network in the Global Age&quot; conference held in Seoul, in September. Lawrence was keynote speaker.Young You did his clinical training...</summary>
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<em>Lawrence with Young Gweon You, Director of Yonsei University Counseling Center in Seoul, and Chair of the "Asian CPE Network in the Global Age" conference held in Seoul, in September. Lawrence was keynote speaker.Young You did his clinical training at Episcopal Health Services in Long Island under Richard Liew a decade ago.</em></p>

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<p>CPSP is increasingly involved in Asia. We were well represented at the International Council for Pastoral Care and Counseling (ICPCC) that met in Rotorua, New Zealand in August. CPSP was represented by persons from the U.S., Malaysia, and Hong Kong. Raymond Lawrence conducted a seminar on group theory and practice in clinical training. Richard Liew was nominated by Lawrence and elected by the assembly as treasurer for ICPCC for the next four years. The ICPCC convenes every four years, rotating its meeting venue. </p>

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<em>CPSP speakers at the Seoul Conference with hosts on each side: (From left to right) Do Bong Kim, Joel Aguirre, Raymond Lawrence, Mei-po Young Tam, Cesar Espineda, and Taesuk Kang. Missing from the photo was Diplomate Mu-gun Chong.</em></p>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>In October the Korean Clinical Pastoral Education association (KCPE) convened an international meeting, "Asian CPE Network in the Global Age." Raymond Lawrence was invited to be the keynote speaker. Other speakers represented Japan, Hong Kong, the Philippines, and Korea. Among other conference speakers with CPSP credentials were Mei-Po Tam-Young from Hong Kong, Joel Aguirre from the Philippines, Cesar Espineda from the U.S., and Mu-gun Chong from Korea. The conference was convened on the tenth anniversary of the founding of the first clinical pastoral training organization in Korea. It was organized and chaired by Gweon Young You, Director of Yonsei University Counseling Center in Seoul. He did his clinical training at Episcopal Health Services in Long Island with Richard Liew a decade ago. CPSP was well represented at the Korea meeting.</p>

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<p><br />
Lawrence traveled next to Hong Kong, where he met with the Hong Kong Chapter as it reviewed and certified Mei Lan Chow as Diplomate in Pastoral Supervision. This was a notable event in that this was the first certification of a person fully trained in Hong Kong in the Chinese language. Lawrence also met with staff of Bethel Seminary, which is putting forward a proposal for accreditation as a Pastoral Psychotherapy training site, which would be complementary to its current Clinical Training Program. He also met with the CEO of Baptist Hospital, Raymond Chen. Baptist Hospital is one of the most prestigious health care institutions in the city. Mei-po Tam Young is Director of Chaplaincy with a salaried staff of 29 persons and directs a CPSP-accredited Clinical Training Program.</p>

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<em>Raymond Lawrence meeting with the Hong Kong Chapter after certifying Mei Lan Chow as Diplomate in Pastoral Supervision. </p>

<p>Left to right: Patty Man Ping To, Agnes Kwai Ping Ho, Lawrence, Kenneth Ys Tam, Mei-po Young-Tam, Suzanne Wong-Ip, Benjamin Wat and Mei Lan Chow.<br />
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<p>Lawrence was invited next to Perth, Australia, where he was hosted for six days by the Perth Council of Churches. They are exploring the option of inaugurating CPSP training programs in Western Australia.</p>]]>
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<title>Congratulations to David Plummer</title>
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<summary type="text/plain"> CPSP Diplomate David Plummer has become Chair of COMISS. COMISS is the one and only organization where certifying bodies, religious judicatories, and seminaries meet to share their mutual interests and concerns. It is an interfaith and interdisciplinary community. Its...</summary>
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<p>CPSP Diplomate David Plummer has become Chair of COMISS. </p>

<p><a href="http://comissnetwork.org/default.aspx">COMISS</a> is the one and only organization where certifying bodies, religious judicatories, and seminaries meet to share their mutual interests and concerns. It is an interfaith and interdisciplinary community. Its initials stand originally for Congress on Ministry in Specialized Settings, but now refers to itself as COMISS Network.</p>

<p>We congratulate David on his promotion to this significant position of leadership and wish him well in his tenure.</p>

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<p>Raymond J. Lawrence<br />
General Secretary, CPSP<br />
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General Secretary, CPSP</strong></p>

<p><strong><a href="">David Plummer</a><a href="mailto:dbplummer@aol.com">dbplummer@aol.com</a>, CPSP Diplomate<br />
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